Step nine is all about making amends to people. It is more than saying, “I’m sorry”. It is about mending the damage that we have done. We work to repair our relationships. It is an ongoing, life long process.
This step is a peace seeking mission, for yourself more than anyone else. You hope at this point in your life that people will recieve your request for forgiveness, but if they don’t~you have to accept that. It’s beyond God to change the past.